Push P.2

Is this relationship the best for you?

I'll make only some points, but not cover it fully.
I've wrote about this plenty of times.
When I give my opinions or suggestions, I'm not trying to control you. Only, I aim to make it plain enough for any realization to happen.

A)
By a personal honest opinion, this relationship I'm being pushed into is not what I call a legitimate friendship.
Many times through years, I felt I received emotional and mental harm not only indirectly from this particular someone, but by many of those who have been supporting him. (I'm not saying everyone who supports him does this.) I have seen it, I have felt it, and I have known about it. At times I have felt pure dislike. What has happened is done indirectly. I even have felt threatened. Supporters usually only do what the person who primarily influences them to do. Say this is true, that I'm not imagining all of this up, does this appear as a legitimate friendship I'm being offered?

Furthering the point, if an attempted relationship he's giving is not legitimate, wouldn't he also do other things we could label as not legitimate for his aim?

B)
Please let us review some events of the past.
Remember when I announced, I finally accept you Sisters into my heart - in "Febby". Only 1 month later, he pursued you.
I had announced ahead of time, that I was doing something for Lazi. Simultaneously, he did a very similar work for Lazi, as if he was pursuing her also.
Then I found Berry. Do you remember "Part". Did you understand what I said has happened in "Part"?
That was then. Also, you can look at today.
I've noticed in something Berry had recently shown how she has very beautiful legs and thighs. (I don't know how much you are aware of Berry and I. Have you seen it?) Oh looky there! Well, there's something recent titled "outfit" on the net about a "particular someone". In it, he has for once worn clothes to clearly shows his thighs.
Could he possibly chasing after her also? (It's normal that even simple birds give signals as communication.)

Sisters, if you're in second place now with Sapphy, if he's chasing after another girl, I guess that would make you third place? You probably also know that I've been talking to more. What if one day he went after them also?
Do you like fourth place? Do you like fifth place? Then what about a sixth place, if I find another, and he likes her too?
Ooh, I get it! I see. You're not asking to be his girlfriend, instead you want to be his Friend? Aahhhh. That may mean you'll find a place, maybe even get lost, in his plenty friends. Do you like the position of being his extra extra extra extra friend, added after to all his main friends, and his significant other? If it's fine with you, it's fine with me.

Harsher Info

Honestly, for a person who I feel doesn't care much about us, it doesn't make sense to me when you continue the effort to invite and start a friendship. Do you understand that your support to him is not needed, but I need the support? He has everyone supporting him.
There's only a single criteria for everything to work out. For everything to go perfectly, all you need to do is this one single thing: to not give an invitation. That's all.

As for me, a friendship between me and him I will no longer consider. I will not even think about it. I wish any further offers will not continue. To further continue, I will receive emotional harm.

In my honest opinion, whenever he's offering this friendship, I don't believe it is targeting me, but actually it is targeting you. I believe, he knows I choose usually at not listening. You have fallen for this false friendship each time, so he repeatedly does it. You respond regardless if it is true or not.

Lastly

I gave you my heart, and this is how I was treated for 1 year. Punishing me weekly because of a best friend. Then punishing me weekly again, when I got away and found someone who had made feel better about myself.

No trust was given to me, when I had created a way to get us all together. You didn't accept. We wasted a whole year.
Everything I said in "rubsheet 2" was discarded. Today you are doing as before. It is very not acceptable to everyone to repeat this same day next year. (BTW, if you ever need me, remember about all dark blue.)

"A plan, is better than no plan." Doing whatever comes to you is not the great plan We need. If you finally will accept my plan given [like: Winter p.1>Answers], everything will work out for all of us. I believe You will get what you want. Berry will get what she wants. I will get what I want. We'll be all fine and dandy. Ladies can you take a chance and try? If you do accept, relax, try to do less, and let me handle the load.

Take care and ciao.

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-- April 12, 2022, 3:30pm PDT
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