Par - Per

To a "particular person":

Hello. Is there a potential relationship? Here I explain whether there may be one or may not be one.


If you reach out to me from weakness, then you might feel this is a needed relationship.

It's the best way to go;
Where there is a need for sympathy and emotional comfort, I please ask that we should seek the company of our main and real friends and family, and also significant other - if we have one.
Why would we do it any other way?
To rather, mostly rely on a friendship with an almost complete stranger who hasn't shown a willingness or an interest in the time of about a decade, may not be the greatest move for anyone.
When you seek an unpredictable and unreliable individual, you could perhaps find much emotional unrest, anxiousness, or dissatisfaction. To rather find emotional security, satisfaction, and support that you immediately need, it's best to seek the helping hand from your now, sure, and willing friends, family, and support who will gladly offer them to you. If you can't find most satisfaction from these valued people, who can best give to you now, then it's not likely you'll probably find it from me or anywhere else.
Since a year ago, even at full strength, while the support of everyone
was present ( and still is ), I've noticed traces of a "poor me" behavior. Our true friends, family, and support should create real satisfaction. They should make you stronger, not weaker. There shouldn't be a "poor me". In this case, the help they give is more than sufficient. I believe this supply is enough.

If you reach out to me in strength, then this is an extra added relationship, not a needed relationship.
I've said, a natural relationship takes two willing participants. I have blogged weekly to monthly for nearly a year where I've made my preferences openly and obviously. Many seem to see his side shows an interest. Though it seems not many are willing to acknowledge my side when considering a relationship, that I have not yet participated in for one, moreover that I'm being pushed into this relationship against (or in the opposite direction of) my willingness when I haven't given any sign of interest in years.
I made it plain, since a year ago before this possibly hard time for him, that an interest here for any relationship coming from me, I haven't yet found, and may not likely find.

I have previously made it known, for any person to break through the boundaries of someone's life, to become unnaturally and extremely interested in every relationship around me, then to interfere to make the consequence of breaking apart my relationships, which usually then creates emotional damage towards any individual, is not the kind of person one normally or naturally seeks.

One example of this happening is the Sisters. In the past, I had considered the "particular person" as one of primary reasons that created the circumstance of their misbehavior. (About the Sisters, because of people I care about now, I will not seek to reopen these ties - at the very least any month soon.)

Getting Along

If asking for a friendship is in strength, for my personal safety please let me volunteer this information. Also, it is for the wish to avoid any further risk of interference towards the ones I most care about.
Each time this happens, it's usually preceded by an offer for a friendship (I've honestly not yet shown an interest in for many years), and also if this continues in the weeks ahead
it will tread into the grounds that
any someone can rightly call or label it as an "emotional abusive" situation from the person responsible.
In the past, I've mentioned it many times. I'll again say it, as a reference: Many years for "this" potential relationship, I haven't had an interest in a friendship or need of help. Also, I mentioned it obviously a year ago. // In a way, a friendship resembles a romance. Whether a friend or girl, when any person says "no", the proper move is usually to back away from him/her, to be considerate. Right?

I displayed my decision a year ago. From then to this day, when still this aggressive friendship was offered at my expense, I have tried properly, obviously, and without disrespect to deny it each time. I even tried at saying "no" as a last resort. After this treatment for a year, if this continues for more months without me returning like feelings, then I believe even the word "harassment" then may well correctly be introduced -
as a fitting description.
I'm sorry. If this info seems sour, I ask for forgiveness.

I'm alright with you. Though, "getting along" doesn't necessarily mean starting a personal and great bond towards a friendship. You have your real and great friends. You should likely go to them. I apologize.
Farewell. I hope your steps into the future are filled with great moments. Goodluck, I wish you a pleasant goodbye.

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Note: In "Getting Along", 3rd sentence,
I explain the "Yearly" graphic in Blog:

"fits" > Assist, second paragraph

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-- Aug 19, 2022, 8pm pst
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