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One leading concern above all matters is survival.
To survive, is crucial.
Whatever element of life that risks our survival,
to save life from it we use the required choice of efficient safeguards.

The new name of MP, Mr. P, or Mister Particular is Mistpar. (Mist-Par)
The new name of Mistpar's friend, for Extraordinary Gentlemen of blog "rad", is Extragent. (Extra-Gent)

Diagram

Please consider using some minutes to understand the easy Diagram.

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Seeing the Diagram of incidences above it uncovers actions of a forcing kind. Mistpar has behavior that includes the quality of forcing. Years of force becomes the forceful manner. It is the makeup of his extreme personality. The extreme intensity is the trait that exposes me to a risk. The risk is a clue to potential higher danger, that begs for the safeguard.

Diagram B

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Diagram B, above shows a relationship with Extragent is near equal to a direct relationship with Mistpar.
As well, past signs indicate and determine today's behavior; That Mistpar's past conduct will usually repeat itself. In latest years, circumstances gave Mistpar the ability to use certain relationships to get to me, and me to get to certain relationships. Hence, if Extragent and I had any relationship, predictably Mistpar would even use this relation to meet me, by force if necessary, and his friend probably wouldn't decline.
Mistpar and Extragent has had a relationship for 15 years about. They are good and best friends.
The probability I would meet Extragent, afterwards next with Mistpar is near guaranteed.
I can't risk that possibility.
Consequently, in the recent starred blogs I displayed and made available the past message to Extragent that I would like to team up for a business venture; After further consideration, the safeguard requires me to exclude the element that could endanger or put my livelihood at risk.
This standard of safeguard implies to me that to maintain safety I shouldn't participate. The decision has all to do with Mistpar. With Mistpar, I can't have a relationship , and for a lifetime I want to avoid one. Therefore sadly, for protection I have to select the option to exclude also the opportunity to meet Extragent.
I can't find any workaround.
I'm very sorry.

Resorts

I wouldn't say I'm declining Extragent. That's the last thing I want to do.
Having no alternative options available or workarounds to use, it leaves me with this last resort
= to opt myself out from participation or any further considering.
In the meantime, better avenues of activities can be done instead.

A viewpoint; Anyone who supplies a remarkable service can exchange his aim from one talent to another talented musician, where there is no loss or waste of effort. For example, an employee who trains in manual labor to lift furniture, can exchange jobs for a manual labor of lifting heavy mail packages. The exercise for 1 person strengthens the effort for the next (more suitable) person.
In mid December 2023, he's acquainted to a thriving talent. It was a landmark accomplishment to see them as a team. This talent is connected to an amazing group of rising talents. All perhaps who want to meet Extragent - the mentor of the very successful Mistpar.

We can devote years to any person. For the team, Extragent for the next years has already a lot on his hands. Any business adventure he wants to give to me, for any individual of the team that reaches out please instead give it all to him/them.
In the future of 2027-2030, at the time I accept most of my business or recreational friends if Extragent has any ideas of a workaround, I'm all ears.

One Why

Let's for some minutes hypothesize to say I would gladly choose to accept all relationships. To meet each important person would take 2-3 months. If you count 3 people including Mistpar, that would be:
3x3 = 9 months.
(1 person is today unavailable.)
Then another 3 months to meet Sapphy.
The total is 1 year.
Does Sapphy want to wait 1 more year, so I can make friends first?

Also, do you remember I'm sick and need at least 3 weeks (about a month) to heal?

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Quick Step

Do you want an adventure?
Here's a simple task you may try of some value. Try in your search engine, to do a 'custom date range' search in your net search engine - of your browser. Many browsers have this basic enhanced tool as a feature to advance your searches. You pick the time period by selecting the start and end dates; The search engine finds th keywords within the time between the 2 dates -- in the past of 2023.

Search #1
Date Range: Oct 8 - Oct 15
Enter Keywords: Jackets, (Mistpar's real name enter here)
Hint: "At times El (the) People can be Bizarre"; 3 sources available.

Search #2
Date Range = Oct 9 - Oct 11
Enter Keywords: 40, Kibbutz
Hint: You may try different search engines.

The source story to target is found at/near the weekend -- 14 or 13 -- that describes the night 2 days earlier.
(See below pic.)
In that week, 3 consecutive days are 3 events of importance. The target period I want to give thought to is on the 10th and 12th, Day 1 and 3, or Tuesday and Thursday. Please forget the middle day -- the 11th.

On Tuesday, is a major general event; On Thursday, is the night of Mistpar's event.
On October 10 and 12 what happened?

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-- April 15, 2024, 2:30am EDT

~ Update: 1pm PDT