give -- Apr 23, 2020, 8am EDT

For Any Girl:
You've been generous to give me what you can give. It's very nice; some excellent, and even more. The least I wanted to do was post another nice drawing (like "...marks the spot") but I decided to do it at a better time. Although, understand I mostly have to accept and not give in return.

There are 2 things I want to say.

Thing # 1: What you do before a relationship, may likely be what you'll do while in one. I believe when a guy and a girl openly admit their feelings for each other is the time to start treating him/her right. Though currently separated by circumstances and distance, I still want to treat Panda how she should be treated.

Thing # 2: If you have a love for someone and you care about this particular someone, would you like it if he then goes out there and likes talking to other girls?
Suppose if I go around and fall in love with this girl, then fall in love with that girl, then fall in love with 100 girls. One after the next, suppose every month I break each girl's heart as I decide to leave for a new girl. Also, even though some girls are strong, some girls are very fragile. In this perhaps we can see the reason why 'love' is usually paired with 'devotion'. More love is more devotion? If a guy cares for someone, he's likely to stay.
Thanks for taking chances and if you try. Sometimes I feel a lot of honor in the things done.

-Girls take great caution: Sadly I often don't receive things done for me until about 2 years after, often times longer. 1 or 2 years after is a lot of times the minimum. Most of the time I get it too late. So it may be more important to get my attention somehow - if you feel you are my type. A lot of times you're right too. But when I do find it, wow! When I send a letter to someone through the mail, I can't imagine that he/she will get it 2 years later. It seems horrible. Especially when you want me to have it immediately. I find some stellar things. Sometimes I get it or come across someone and wonder of its legitimate. Also, if you want to take a risk at being very obvious, understand not in every situation and always can I get back to you or come to you immediately. Don't be embarrassed either, if you ever are. Especially, many times I find opportunities or something usually when I've already found a special someone. It's usually better for her that I don't respond, or sometimes for that time not even accept it (thing #2). It may even better for you I feel, because if I accept, open to you, then suddenly stop (because I have to), you may feel even worse.

-Understand girls I can't draw you in any of my work. (At least most of the time. ) I'm not going to do it because I have concluded that if you ask for it and I don't give it to you, you will want me more.

-I'm volunteering info. Pay attention to the big virus. It may just be time to hold back progress toward a new relationship, or not rush into anything, at this point. On the other hand, if you really need someone I'm not going to stop you and tell you something different..
Girls be safe. The virus is gotten me on my tiptoes. When you feel like you're not pulling the strings to anything, and you're just waiting for the people above you to say, "everything is okay", I find I'm a little on edge.

-Girls, a word of advice. A girl can play too many 'girls games' - at trying to hurt a guy. If there's a few girl games a guy can tolerate it for awhile. But eventually if there's too many, you may chase him away for good.

-To any girl, I want to ask please not to hurt yourself because of me. I'm not sure who it is, but I keep sensing someone out there could be in distress, and may even hurt herself. (I could be wrong.) Because i'll personally want to go to your house, rub your feet, and give you a very nice back massage, even as a newbie in the art (of massage). ( At least I want to.) I'm pretty sure you'll find someone new. Especially if you did something beautiful for me. It's a gem that given to the right person may just be what he needs. I hear a lot of times that the right person may usually come along automatically when you're genuinely ready for him/her in your life. Where I stand, I'm no pro of a successful relationship, and I can't yet confirm it. It's you're decision to take or leave this piece of advice.

-I see a lot of times girls are working right beside an available great looking guy. Considerig previous experiences, especially if you currently see I already have found someone, at those times I'll just say be practical. If you see any interest from him, it may be the best thing to try.

Okay, girls I'll have to let you go, to have fun, play, and do what you want.

See ya later.

 

*Update: 5/4