Friendly?

To keep the last blog short and courteous, I didn't want to add this part. However, because I didn't include the full explanation, I often look unfriendly.

I may not understand every aspect of friendship, though I do firmly grasp certain parts.
Here is one way to tell a friendly person apart from an unfriendly person.

Friendly or Unfriendly

A friendly person who seeks a friendship will consider the other person's needs.
A person's needs include respect. A respect for a person is to respect his/her personal boundaries.
If at any time, a friendly person unintentionally passes uninvited into a person's space, the negative response it would make in the other is the clue to back away. Immediately, if any friendship exists in someone, it would abide by the need to exit and move back. This we call respect.

The contrary is true for the unfriendly person.
This person who does not respect a person ignores or disregards another person's needs, including his/her personal boundary.
Unfriendliness is seen when a person intrudes, disrupts, violates, also by direct and constant force goes into another person's exclusive space, then damages things inside it - like relationships. Generally, this is not considered respecting another person and his/her space.

In my case, after 1.5 years all my genuinely repeated requests to a particular someone, had been to not interfere and discontinue any further disruptions in my life. Still in each result, it was ignored and disregarded.
The use of pressure, force, included mental and emotional harm (ingredients of violence) were used, which shows someone who discards the needs of another, to replace it with his own.
To discard a person's needs for boundaries, discards the person. Discarding people disrespects people.As a result, in these actions you will find an unfriendliness to one, then all.
The way to differentiate friend and not, is how well he/she respects the other.

To Use

*For the last subject, to use color with the cause of appreciation is quite fine.
Next, to use color with the cause to confuse, to misrepresent, to interfere, and results as damage, where we can find an unfriendly person by doing the above mentioned, is considered improper use.
I had seen only 1 person use it respectively as the latter.

Thank you for the time given.

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-- August 31, 2023, 7pm EDT