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Lately, the label of "anger" has stepped at my door to identify me (figuratively).
I'll discuss in part the subject of anger.

Info that complements this subject is to describe personal space.
Everyone has boundaries of personal space.

Even when apart everyone lives in synchronization, like 2 different countries.



When you interact with a friend, each gets into the other's personal boundary of space. It's good.

Add the explanation (above), to what we know about anger.
Anger can be separated into 2 categories: defensive anger, and offensive anger.
These 2 different forces are like in a soccer game.
Defensive Anger is used in defensive plays, as to protect.
Offensive Anger is used in offensive plays, as to destroy.
In News, #H the anger expressed by the woman who insults the wild cat is a defensive play to protect her child.
Anger to dislike or hate is usually an offensive play, and is an immeasurable source of wrongs, harm, and suffering.

Anger is expressed through some form of aggression.
A person who's aggressive is uninvited, and goes unnaturally too far into another's personal space. Likely, demands on your time and attention follow.

Normally this is wrong. (Of 3 figures, the 1st and 2nd figure is the same man.)
In some cases this pic is permissible - like a parent's precaution to check on the child's friend who's a dangerous teen.

The negativity in me I describe below in #1-#4 -- they are defensive plays.
In the case of Mr. P, whether friendship or force it's all coming from Mr. P's side. It's all one way.

When Mr. P. enters into my personal space without welcome, interrupts every relationship by getting between us, takes my work, watches my private work and interactions, reads my private emails, it's one-sidedly Mr. P.
Here is frequently what Mr. P attempts or does:

You can see he goes into my private space. Instances of interfering can be found.
When you study the picture, is it defensive play or offensive play?
You judge, who is being the person doing what to whom?
When I am briefly negative, isn't it understandable?

Times of Anger

It seems I've been classed in the group of angry people.
The 4 main past incidents you could connect anger to me are:
#1) In the visual examples above, please identify who's playing offensively. The response to these acts, I make defensive plays = My blogs.
Each of all my blogs on this site is a defensive play, based on facts that are unbiased and objective - without positive or negative emotion. From the facts, I link deductions. I tell them.
Immediately after an emotional hit, sometimes I may feel dislike of the situation for hours. Within post-hours, traces of negativity briefly enters a blog written [like Par-Per 3]. By the next day all is forgotten. Though shimmers of negativity might swell at times due to the unusual heavy weight that continues up to this day.
#2) Did the suspicion grow from blog "Ma.De."?
Of course, this is about a loved one. Anyone who uses a loved one against me, I won't consider him/her a decent person. Moreover, from an info source, I found after certain cases of shock similar to mine the result of anger is even natural or common.
#3) One occasion is between 2 ladies. The anger amongst groups were the result of siding with 1 of the 2 girls. It's correct there was found offensive plays of anger involved. Although, I didn't take any side, so I wasn't a part of either group who angrily displayed a side. I felt the girls were at equal standing about whatever dispute that happened.
#4) Finally, an immense event of anger came from a past angry quoter. It's because Mr. P and his partner had believed the quoter told everyone to attack Mr. P's partner.
Although, in "News" I explained it to show the quoter's statements were based on respect and sarcasm rather than on anger. If there was any anger, it was toward a product rather than a person - a product that would be used as a tool to cause harm to the girl he valued (or values). His actions were defensive, not offensive. No real anger was to any person. For the mislabel he suffered, he should be surely compensated = an apology. It's your call.

The conclusion is, I have erased any connection to me about offensive anger, or anger in general.

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-- October 24, 2023, 4:50pm EST