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Yes, Mr. Particular Person has been going through a hard experience.

When a person hurts, to know it, should be the conviction to not do it; For us, there is not any time, we have been granted the permission to freely hurt someone else.
I posted "par-per", "Par-Per 2", "Par-Per 3".
The content of these papers are valuable because they create my personal safety and health. When a like matter happens in your lifetime, it could lead to the benefit of your safety and health.

Is he listening?

A, B, C sections, are 3 pieces of info that combine into 1 plain explanation.

A)
Near March 2021, is since when the attempts for a friendship start by Mr. Particular. Advance the time to an approximate half year forward. Here is about when, I was realizing first evidences of a peculiar nature concerning Mr. Particular - it seems he had offered a forceful relationship. At which time, I had to obviously express my disinterest.
Months continued. It had been gradual. The distinct nature progressed and had turned into an aggressiveness. Again, I'd openly show my disagreement for a relationship.

Add a year more, we find today.
I had found it increased to such a proportion, toward a display of characteristics that one could perceive and identify in him an extreme behavior.

Marking 2 days ago as the first time I discovered his event of great sorrow, though it happened a great time earlier, shows a disinterest, because I usually have to pay attention elsewhere. From this response, you can perhaps tell I generally did not return the interests for a friendship.

To further the response, I have repeatedly and openly expressed a dissatisfaction for friendship; I'd written the "Par-Per" papers, where it illustrates a course Mr. Particular travels, that to continue will likely lead to my eventual emotional and mental abuse.

In conclusion, over a 2 year period, we can identify a super-fuel for a friendship,
I hadn't in a way returned, inspired, contributed to, or participated in.

B)
Approximately, a week after "proba" was posted -- which takes nearly a week to read because there are 5 papers holding much info -- by specific actions, he had verified his knowledge of these exact blogs precisely about him, in the "P Page" ovular tab - quickly after the papers were written.
For certain reasons I'm unable to clearly tell what these actions are. Instead I will say it this way: "You can see it in the stars."

In conclusion, he has validated here (and in times before) he's been reading my personal blogs in the Private Panda section.

C)
One recent day, I wrote a letter to someone, and was sent forward by my email mailbox. 3 weeks after, by the same technique of "B", he had verified again he'd read this certain email. The only way someone could ever see this letter (especially weeks after), is if he in some way broke into my personal phone, or broke into my private online mailbox. To do either, we find our glimpse of the behavior.

A, B, and C, conclude, Mr. Particular has carried for 2 years the increasing momentum which makes super-fuel, but un-encouraged by me, to such intensity that he'd even freely break into my personal phone or email to view its contents; (It anticipates the last sentence.) An added example, is exercising to ignore all signs about it's restriction, to even open my private blogs.
To sum, it shows a behavior that's determined to view all my writings, whether very private emails or private blogs. This superfuel combined with all these activities foresee and suggest the same behavior to read all or most my blogs in the private Panda Section.

***The final result, shows the great likelihood he has read the distinctly starred buttons for blogs: "Par-Per 2", "Par-Per 3".

(Par-Per 2 is located in the regular public areas.
Both these blogs, through links, lead to the main "par - per" blog.)
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Finally, by A-C we see, Mr. Particular has likely seen and read the uniquely marked "Par-Per" blogs, posted specifically for him.
Hence, to choose at continuing to offer a friendship, he admits to purposefully cause another person's resulting emotional and mental abuse. I'm sorry.
I don't ever like being mean. Especially here and now to someone very valuable. Although I must be firm. Every person's choice and space must be respected by all, generally. Each person should make another person's burden easier by at least not adding to them. That's what I believe.

Message

This message is to Mr. Particular Person:

"
I'm very sorry for your great personal loss. No one should go through, what you're going through.
It's sad, we each must go through it. It does suck, but it's life.

Although every man has the duty to take care of himself. This is why I should say this.
I must kindly ask, please discontinue at the offer for the relationship you ask. Of course, to continue the offer for friendship in the midst of plenty friends, family, and support already in your resources is not very necessary. To ask me for a friendship that's not really required, even against a person's emotional and mental health, isn't a fitting move even when the best friendships are given. Also, doesn't it devalue your relationships now?
I would suggest to please meet in the company of your sure friends, family, and support to supply your immediate essential needs. Your situation is serious. My situation is also serious. I hope you understand. Thanks.
*Pat to the shoulder* Take care of yourself, huh. I hope you meet your excellent fate. May you make steps to enter your very best days. Goodluck to a great guy. I wish you farewell. Thanks for reading this message.
"

I will give respect to him and his friend.
From this day to December 10, I will allow a time of full leniency and pardon.
No matter the emotional and mental difficulty I carry, I will quietly endure it through this time.

Thank you all for reading.

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-- November 18, 2022, 2:40pm PDT
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