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This is an important blog. Please read the whole message to the end. It supplies you with general info, then shows your and my position. The end provides a a new option.

General

Especially parents know, before romantic love is the need to survive. We go to school. We get a job for an income. These are the means to survive. Sustenance is the first essential task of everyone on planet Earth.

Why your Ma wants you to get with Mr. P could be a mother's inbred or innate duty to help you survive in your beginning. (Despite even that he may at least be fibbing some.)

My Stance (Section Rewrote)

Orange Panda, do you not believe love exists and is waiting for you? Learn of my stance for relief.
2 courses of choice I can choose:

Course #1:
Here is 1 possible choice. Your Dad already has an outstanding and solid team of workers and artists. Ideally after we meet (you and I), I decide to somehow work for your Dad. 1 or 2 years, I'd earn accountability of my skills.
Beforehand, my skill qualifications, my experience, what available positions are open are all very obscure, without a confirmation and discussion with him. The steps required could be returning to college or getting job experience over a length of years. On this road, steps may consume much effort.
Next, I would need to ask him for a loan.
Your Dad might have great expectations for you so I would need a considerable team - the reason to work for him. Then begins your and my journey into the future.

Course #2:
On the other hand, the next course is with a girl like Seaglo.
She has such influence by connection and resources as to obtain a sufficient sum. It's an equivalent of a loan, or like getting grants or like a scholarship.
A start-up sum. The amount doesn't have to be great and plenty, but should be workable, satisfactory, and supportive as a useful job for living.
The only step needed is with Seaglo to enter a partnership.

Parents guide their children to first survive (through school and job), then romance.
Sapphy, always you stood mainly as first romantically.
However, before the romantic side enters our minds, all attention is on surviving.
If all girls are equal, and left are 2 courses of surviving, in Course #2 Seaglo may likely give me an easy comfortable start.
Darling you're always in my primary thoughts, though I repeatedly remember the first concern.

Your Stance

I see in Mr. Particular, by his usual acts the next move following his relationship with you, in about a year he'll definitely move on. You'll first pass to Mr. P. regardless if you like his friends. You may establish a handful of connections and finance you need within this interval of time.
However, a drawback may emerge, as described in: extra, #C3 [ link ]
I believe, following your break-up with Mr. P, you'll always be held in comparison to his newest girl afterwards. Forever thereafter, negative comments could effect you consistently. You may feel the discouragement when the comparative label of being an ex is felt each time. In the case of his actual past girlfriend, the constant negativity of public opinion could be the reason she had developed an illness. I think you already know the feeling. The illness can effect someone's lifetime. He may be a gold mine, or he could be the opposite. It's a reality. What's been happening to her you may experience the same as well. Everyone wants to avoid being ill. Anyone who cares about you doesn't want it for you. Naturally, your parents don't want it for you. I don't want it for you.

Option

You have 1 new option to choose.
The repeating loop we're caught in I can hardly tolerate, but it's ongoing and I endure it.
Steps to the front, then steps backward. It will benefit everyone to fix and exit this unending loop early.
Everyone wishes to move forward.

Show your care for me once, as an extra incentive, in return I will give you this:
Whether you are my girlfriend or not,
I'll be a friend and partner to you and your Ma for a lifetime.
I have major roles for you and your Ma, especially for you.
I have no problem with helping someone for as long as they require.
As long as you need it, I'll give you what I reasonably can.
You may come to me any time.
Even if you have a boyfriend or husband, we'll be friends
- in need of help always I'll give to mainly you.
You may count on me, but you know I'm a little slow.
The whole point of any relationship is to help each other.
Between us we should build esteem, health,
and know we each made a good impact on the other.
I care about you.
Consider it for awhile.
Okay?

When you agree, you know what to do. Right?
Sapphy, the movie is waiting for you.
The message in it is only true if you do this for me.
Okay. Ciao.

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-- Nov 13, 2023, 6:30am EDT
~Update: Nov 14, 6a m | 7pm