P & C





Pre-Note

( 3/3/23 Note: Today, this whole P&C page can be skipped and is not necessary. The necessity of this page only had merit for the current events of that time - when it was created. You may continue to read: Proba A.) /////


Is it wrong when a person wants to plainly and openly tell or show what is actual or true - when the object of it is not to offend someone, but to protect oneself?
If someone doesn't want to see this or any provided information, or if you believe you could meet possibly an offense ahead, it's okay. Easily choose not read it. It'll be here when you're ready. It's available for those who would choose to listen.

To read this, one day can help you defend yourself, if something as mentioned happens. It's possible, in your life you may find a like situtation.
While considering every person's feelings, when you decide it's most appropriate, you may view it.

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Perspectives

A point is made in the next example:


A family lives in an average house in the States. One member is a tall very muscular American Alaskan male with orange curly hair named Placot. One member is a a small athletic yet very round semi-European male, Placot's relative, named Clomin. The parents, the 2 males, and 3 others live together.

Every few days, for Placot to release stored frustration, after work when he arrives home repeatedly he punches Clomin until his lips, cheeks, or nose bleed. Near weekly or more, Placot drinks excessive alcohol when physical attacks to Clomin get worse. Placot's bold, open, and extroverted offenses climbs to the height that he victimizes Clomin, to such a beating Clomin seeks frequent medical help and relief at the hospital. Every 1-3 months for years, Clomin seeks the hospitalization.

Within 4 years, Placot relocates to hundreds of miles in a distant place.
Placot is recruited into the military. Years together has made firm a well formed relationship with another soldier named Felko. They're active on the golf course on weekends; Once every 2 weeks, Placot and Felko play golf as a time of relief in activity.

Placot continues weekly his leisurely drinking then again to exceed normal limits. Off barracks grounds, having a few baseball wins after a couple of losses, while engaged in celebratory activities and drinking, he pushes then beats another male, named Parken, similarly as he did to Clomin. Again, police get involved and they detain Placot amongst prisoners for a while.

Aside from Parken, it happens that Felko, is sent on a special assignment by his officer. He tells the officer he doesn't want to go. Yet again, the officer carelessly orders him to prepare for departure, because he's being relocated. After objecting many times, the officer hollers at the soldier, who then threatens to kick him out of the military even after years of hard service. Eventually, Felko makes the decision. He's going.

2 months later, the officer who wasn't given complete information about the special duty, who had demanded Felko to take the assignment, is finally given the full report about the potentially high danger of it. In an attempt to reach Felko to retrieve him back, the officer finds he's already too late. He was given the news that Felko had died in the assignment a week ago.

During another stay in a cell at the Police Station, Placot hears the news of Felko's death. Quite saddened about his friend, he shatters his cell bed apart. In an hour of uncontrollable activity he exhausts himself to sleep on the torn and broken bed.

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I've made an illustration of Placot's life as an understandable example.
I make very intense or overly exaggerate qualities that may not identify anyone in life correctly. Though many qualities escape the representation in reality, I only attached so many imaginary, undesirable, and untrue characteristics to make points more see-able to help understand.

While Placot is enduring a time of sorrow, we give him a time of kindness, forgiveness, tenderness, we overlook, we suspend judgement, we let him heal, to regain his strength and personal footing.

For my personal protection I need to ask a few questions. If you're willing, please be open-minded and also open an ear.
Does one man's suffering cure another man's suffering? Placot is saddened. Then a question can ask, does it fix, pardon, cure or disregard the suffering of Clomin and Parken? When 3 people are suffering in this illustrated example, do we place all our attention of suffering on Placot, and completely ignore Clomin, and Parken?

When the time of mourning finishes for Placot, if it happened before, can it happen again?
Though when we decide to care about Placot, should it completely excuse his previous actions, and similar actions if the behavior of this kind would continue?

For everyone's well-being we should consider those questions.





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-- Dec 6, 2022, 3pm PST
~ Update: none