4 WAYS
At the end shows 4 options to choose. I changed the choices.
The unwritten agreement is available.
To accept this deal, there's nothing to lose. You can back out or cancel at any time. When you accept it, you'll have a partner, teammate, or helping hand for a lifetime at your disposal. Secondly, it's there in case your looking for a second chance for us on a more romantic road.
Deactivate it at will - even in 3 weeks after. At your leisure or as a backup plan, you may use or exercise it when there is an essential need it meets.
Regardless of opinion, you may ask:
1) Do you care about me?
2) Think about the imaginary best relationship. Whether I remain devoted to you or we divide our paths in the next months, when I earnestly request for you to complete and make things right between us, what should you do?
1 POS action solves and helps. The action is not for my big ego or to show everyone that you're my girl, or trying to impress anyone. A relationship between you and I, is as simple and plain as 2 people who want to be together.
Regarding Mr. P, I'm not against Mr. P but only trying to defend myself. As long as he doesn't intentionally interfere, I have absolutely no problem with him. For all or any who avoids the misbelief him and I are required to have a relationship and wrongly bring us together, then I'm entirely alright. My preferences make me who I am; Even amid the expectations of what people want, my freewill grants me a pardon. My decision should be honored. For the rest of life, him and I will get along fine.
Deadline
I'll change option #3 of blog "3 Opt". You may be busy with school, work, and a social life with friends. For me to make a deadline, could weigh onto your back added pressure, that no one needs.
Thus, I'm erasing the deadline in #3. By February, if you still decline the offer, after I continue to feel unwanted I'll leave sometime around then.
Ample time without pressure is favorable for an important choice.
You risk or lose nothing, it helps me for a proper cause, it helps your parents who want for you a good start, it propels us forward, it creates for us a second chance, you can cancel the contract at anytime and even meet Mr. P afterwards, here is the Christmas weeks of giving.
It's a great puzzle to me. To be so reluctant and even side against the solution that benefits all persons involved. Do you wish to leave things unsaid? I gave you everything I could, only for you to dislike me in the end. Do you want me to leave feeling resentful? Why do you want to leave things unsaid and open ended? The POS action ties up everything, and everyone wins.
It is the ideal right way to go at this junction for you and I.
4 CHOICES
I'll repeat the first 2 choices, and added some alterations:
1) Red = From the aspect of a potential boyfriend or girlfriend, mutually we give each other our prime care, status, and value. It admits surely you care about me, as I always have for you. Show me once, then I will leave with absolute and high thoughts and feelings about you.
2) Orange = This display means the same as red +
Plus, you agree to the unwritten contract of "WAYS 2"; You'll have a lifelong life preserver, that's at anytime cancelable; Also, it includes our second chance.
2B) To cancel the contract at anytime, where a big brown weird or funny hat. However let 3 weeks pass after POS, before you do it.
3) Pass = If by February, I don't get a response, then I'll take the hint that you choose not to give one. Without a clear deadline, around February I'll choose to leave without the help and esteem I wish for.
4) Decline = If you want to decline now, have the freedom to use POS by any of Mr. P's colors. (Though, today pink is confusing). This option is available to use. Although, this is considered to me the unkind way. From July, I suspect your parents can at times like to freely choose to act independently from your choices - which is fine. Yet, having now an adult status, gives you the privilege to exercise your own leadership toward a fate you like. Hence I feel the decision is ideal to see from you. Please do it by personal and direct display.
By now, your parents probably want me to immediately go. I will gladly leave where I'm not wanted. Although, I feel overall in need of haste for your benefit, they may be overlooking what's essential and optimal for another person's health. If any 1 person has no worth at all then it's completely fine to discard him or her like yesterday's newspaper. I'm convinced this way is the right way of esteem to go for both you and I. Also, after years of dedication, I deserve this small thing in return.
Here are the full choices. Take care in these relaxed weeks and winter.
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-- Dec 11, 2023, 7:50am edt |